1. Soothing colors. Everyone likes to be surrounded by their favorite things. So if it’s possible, ask your loved one what colors they most enjoy. Do they seem to tend toward softer pastels? Or do they like a pop of bright color, like an accent pillow? Including them in this choice goes a long way for feeling in control and comfortable. 

Studies have shown that the color blue has a calming effect, and is commonly used in areas where quiet is the goal, such as bedrooms. Green also creates a sense of calm, and can help a room look larger. Avoid bold or busy patterns as these can agitate a senior with cognitive issues or even make them feel trapped. Stick with simple design. 

Some communities, such as Assured Senior Living, will work with you to paint an accent room in an apartment a specified color. Consider bringing some sample paint boards to help you decide as you decorate senior living apartment. 

2. Artwork. If a person loved the ocean, look for a painting or wall décor depicting a seascape. If they were hiking enthusiasts, art reflecting a mountain scene or trail would be a good choice. Not only can these serve as gentle ways to stimulate memory, they can be conversation starters during visits. 

In addition, paintings or drawings by family members, particularly grandchildren, can add a special touch of home. Decals, posters, or other visual pieces that have a special meaning for your loved one work as well. For example, if Dad was a musician, frame a piece of his favorite sheet music. 

3. Photos. Favorite photos of family, vacations, and special events are great additions, but think more of past photos, rather than recent shots of family members. Look through your loved one’s photos from their past—is there a picture of Mom’s cheerleading squad from high school? Or a team photo when Dad was playing baseball? Seek out the fun and quirky shots that evoke positive memories. 

4. Soft textures. A soft throw, cozy blanket, or a favorite sweater or shirt that feels good is also a good addition. For a person with Alzheimer’s, other form of dementia or a brain injury, there often aren’t that many opportunities to touch different textures. Having something soft and soothing available can be relaxing and calming. 

5. Mementos of their past. It could be as simple an item as a sergeant’s cap from the army. A fragrant lavender sachet. An autographed baseball. Some families create a special “memory box” that holds several small items which could evoke memories and give visitors a way to engage the resident. Ideas include postcards, a recipe, keychain, dried flowers or a vacation souvenir. 

Keep in mind that their apartment or suite should be warm and inviting, but mainly a place where they will sleep and rest—not a place they will not want to remain in all day. That’s because getting out and about in the memory care community and interacting with others is the best medicine for residents with dementia. So think comfort and soothing ambiance—so they will be refreshed and ready to enjoy each moment.